ayyyyy welcome to Befriending Fate, its good to see u.
rules for Befriending Fate:
1. get weird, have fun
embrace ur cringe. do what u love.
2. break the frickin’ rules, dude
cuz theyre all made up anyways.
c) find the magic wherever you go
u just gotta pay attention and see it.
stella lucifera
wazzup, i’m stella (they/them).
my practice is about pushing the boundaries of joy, finding the connections between magic and music, and creating beautiful shit that moves people.
join me and embrace your truest self.
leave behind what empire told you.
achieve new heights of pleasure and emotion you never thought possible.
email me, i guess stellalucifera@proton.me or dm me on instagram: @befriendingfate
$50-200 sliding scale, but im chill so just lmk if you need a different option
blog shtuff
Befriending Mercury
November 14, 2025
Befriending Mercury takes skill, but can benefit our lives in amazing ways. Learn how to befriend your Mercury placement by reading through each of the twelve zodiac signs and how Mercury interacts with them.
poem to Venus
May 14, 2026
a poem for Venus, invoking the need for strength and power in harsh times. we are all struggling as empire falls, so this poem can be used as a prayer to ask Venus for aid.
Becoming Friends with Astrology
October 28, 2025
Becoming friends with astrology can be difficult. Lots of content creators online talk about certain placements being “bad” or different aspects and transits as negative. What does this even mean? What is a “good” or “bad” placement in astrology? Learning about our natal chart and ways to work with each piece allows us to access
Connecting Magic and Creativity
September 30, 2025
Creativity and magic are both beautiful concepts. They add a spark to life difficult to capture in other mediums. Both art and magic are ethereal in their fleeting nature and how neither can truly be captured or frozen in time. Magic connects us to the universe and the world in a similar way creativity connects
The Magic of Community
August 25, 2025
I recently spent a weekend up in Seattle where I was able to visit a good friend of mine who I hadn’t seen in some time. During this trip, I met their personal circle of friends, partners, and tight-knit community. They all welcomed me the instant I arrived. The person I was visiting told me